Tag Archives: Gretchen Rubin

8 Tips for Feeling Happier During an Unhappy Time

  1. Remind yourself of reasons to be grateful.
  2. Remember your body.
  3. Do something fun.
  4. Take action.
  5. Look for meaning.
  6. Connect with friends and family.
  7. Make something better.
  8. Act toward other people the way you wish they’d act toward you.

Gretchen Rubin

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Get enough sleep

(These were billed as “8 Tips to Beat Holiday Stress” but seem like good advice anytime. Of course, she had me as soon as she put sleep first ;-))

  1. Get enough sleep.
  2. Exercise.
  3. Stay in control of your eating.
  4. Take your time; plan ahead.
  5. Learn from the past.
  6. Make time for real fun.
  7. Behave yourself!*
  8. Fill your heart with love.

Gretchen Rubin

*This one’s basically “Don’t be a grouch.”  Yep, that’s a hard one!

Feelings

[A]cknowledge the reality of other people’s feelings. Don’t deny feelings like anger, irritation, fear, or reluctance; instead, articulate the other person’s point of view.  … Experts say that denying bad feelings intensifies them; acknowledging bad feelings allows good feelings to return.

Gretchen Rubin

The blog was process, the book was conclusion

One smart friend who has read both [blog and book] said she thought the blog was process, the book was conclusion. The ideas in the book are presented in a more distilled, thoughtful way, and the book framework allows me to tell longer stories and explain more complicated ideas. I’m able to show how different ideas fit together, which can be tough to do in one blog post. The book goes deeper.

Gretchen Rubin

Dreaded Tasks

Often, I know I’d be happier if I do something I really don’t feel like doing. … Those dreaded tasks hang over my head, though; they make me feel drained and uneasy. I’ve learned that I’m much happier, in the long run, if I try to tackle them as soon as possible, rather than allowing myself to push them off.

Gretchen Rubin

Looking Out the Window

It’s important to have space in which to think. Yesterday, I overheard someone complain, “I left my Blackberry at home, so I was so bored during my cab ride home. I just had to sit there.”

There are few things that I love more than looking out the window of a car, train, or bus. One day, when I was gazing out of a bus window, I was struck by a thought: “What do I want out of life?” “Well,” I thought, “I want to be happy.” … If I’d been checking my emails, I might never have had the idea for the happiness project.

Gretchen Rubin